When painful things enter our lives unbidden, the instinctive question is, “Why?” We immediately look for cause or purpose. If we can find either, we are better able to bear the difficulty.
But when we can find neither, then the question often changes to an accusing, “Why, God?” 
And if we don’t get an immediate answer, or if the answer is not to our satisfaction, we get angry at God. 
Today is a video from a CREST alumnus who went through that journey. His wife died at the tender age of 47, leaving him and his young children to cope.